Friends Forever

Friends are hard to find. So when you are blessed with one do everything you can to preserve the relationship.

 You know the old saying ... keep your friends close, but your enemies closer?  Well, that was one of those sayings I used to think was true.  And maybe it still is to an extent.  But a conversation I had today with a dear friend of more than 20 years got me to thinking:  You need people in your life who have your back.  Don't let the haters or the false "friends" disrupt your spirit.  Who needs them "closer?"  You already know their M.O.  So align and surround yourself with people who are going to support you, tell you where you may be going wrong and help set you straight.  You need people who appreciate your  transparency and honesty.  While I understand the "fake it til you make it mentality," there's nothing like being REAL.  You'll feel a lot better about yourself and situation and who knows, your story can teach and inspire others.  You never know who you'll be a blessing to nor who could come as your blessing. 

Here's my living healthy and wealthy assignment for you this week.  Reach out and connect or reconnect with people you believe are special parts of your life.  Tell them you love them.  Tell them you've got their back.  Share a laugh or a cry.  "Friends" come and go.  But the "true-blue" ones last a lifetime.  As I pointed out to my friend Keisha Corban, we may not have talked for at least 15 years, but it's not like we've lost a beat.  We are kindred spirits.  I love her and appreciate her more today than I could have ever done when we back in high school.  The "Red Bone" and "Caramel Cone" are back together and we're about to show the world the true meaning of friendship.  Thank you Keisha for being my friend.  Smooches!!!