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Monday, June 24, 2013
Patience is the best medicine.
Patience is a virtue. Patience is love. Patience is kind. Personally, patience keeps my blood pressure in check. Lately, I keep finding myself in situtations where I am forced, compelled or requested to wait. Now, I usually don't mind, but more and more often my patience continues to be tested. I am really not sure why, but I have learned a few techniques to distract myself from what can be very annoying, especially when you're on a schedule or just want to complete your task or tasks at hand.
For those of us who pray - this is my first stop. I ask God to help me slow down, take a few deep breaths and reflect on all of His goodness. The first scripture that pops into my mind is I Corinthians 13: 4-7, which reads: "4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (NIV)
I then begin the 4-7-8 breathing technique taught in meditation exercises. Inhale through the nose for 4 counts, hold your breath for 7 and exhale out the mouth for 8. You don't have to over exaggerate the breath. Just do it calmly as many times as you feel you need or at least 4 times every 10-15 minutes you feel stressed or have to endure teeth-grinding, hand-wrenching, nerve wracking detainment for no REAL APPARENT REASON!!!
And then of course you can find things to distract your attention. Go outside for a walk, play with your pet, read a magazine or book, play a silly online game, clean something or my favorite distraction - writing. Yeah, kind of like now. I had been thinking about sitting down writing my weekly blog post, but have been busy. Well, now that I'm waiting around, instead of becoming frustrated beyond measure, screaming or getting a major attitude, I decided to share my experience with you.
Only you know when enough is enough and how to effectively handle each situation on a case by case basis. These are just a couple of my personal tips to keep the peace in what feels like a war going on inside your head and probably throughout your body.
Here's to your continued health and wealth! Have a great rest of the day!
For those of us who pray - this is my first stop. I ask God to help me slow down, take a few deep breaths and reflect on all of His goodness. The first scripture that pops into my mind is I Corinthians 13: 4-7, which reads: "4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. (NIV)
I then begin the 4-7-8 breathing technique taught in meditation exercises. Inhale through the nose for 4 counts, hold your breath for 7 and exhale out the mouth for 8. You don't have to over exaggerate the breath. Just do it calmly as many times as you feel you need or at least 4 times every 10-15 minutes you feel stressed or have to endure teeth-grinding, hand-wrenching, nerve wracking detainment for no REAL APPARENT REASON!!!
And then of course you can find things to distract your attention. Go outside for a walk, play with your pet, read a magazine or book, play a silly online game, clean something or my favorite distraction - writing. Yeah, kind of like now. I had been thinking about sitting down writing my weekly blog post, but have been busy. Well, now that I'm waiting around, instead of becoming frustrated beyond measure, screaming or getting a major attitude, I decided to share my experience with you.
Only you know when enough is enough and how to effectively handle each situation on a case by case basis. These are just a couple of my personal tips to keep the peace in what feels like a war going on inside your head and probably throughout your body.
Here's to your continued health and wealth! Have a great rest of the day!
Monday, June 17, 2013
"Dosha" Know Your Skin? Ayurveda Beauty Solutions
First let me explain what a dosha is. A dosha is a mind-body type. Ayurveda us the ancient medical system of India, that is still used today, which believes the cause of skin conditions is thought to be a dosh imbalance. There are three doshas in Ayurveda. They are" Vata, Pitta and Kapha. Each has a unique set of characteristics and if you know your dosha, then you can take steps to possibly prevent skin problems before they begin.
The funny thing about following Ayurveda is that you'll learn almost every food you love is probably on the "you really should avoid that" list. For instance, I fall under the Pitta dosha. Here is what this food as medicine system says about me:
Pitta Skin
Pitta skin types need to stay cool. Their skin tends to burn easily and they are more sensitive to sun exposure. A Pitta imbalance can result in rashes, acne, and other inflammatory skin conditions such as psoriasis.
Foods to Eat
Pitta skin types should eat sweet, watery fruits like melons, mangos, and pears. Think of a pot of water on high heat – Pitta evaporates the heat from your skin so you need to add foods with a high water content to keep Pitta in balance. Pitta is the exact opposite of Vata in terms of temperature, so eating foods that are cooling such as coconut oil and rose petal jam helps to reduce the skin inflammation. Get the Pitta meal plan.
Herbs to Take
There are three great herbs for balancing Pitta skin:
Turmeric powder has powerful anti-inflammatory properties, and you can use in your cooking
Amla berry, which is a cooling herb. You can take this as a supplement beginning at 250mg a day. It is also available in jam form.
Fennel seeds, which are ideal for digestion. Chew a pinch of fennel seeds after your meals.
Pitta skin gets aggravated by eating spicy foods so they should avoid foods like chilies, black pepper, and jalapenos. The heat in spicy foods further increases Pitta people’s own natural internal heat.
That's the latest skinny on SKIN. So get ready to bare yours....or not. Just remember to love yourself - because you're good enough, smart enough and doggone it, people like you!
Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Quick Bites
Fast Food: Not your drive-thru variety
We have all heard that breakfast is the most important meal of the day, yet many of us rarely acknowledge its existence.
Did you sleep too late? Are you too tired to eat or just not up for eating first thing in the morning? Whatever your reason for not eating breakfast, it's time to change your tune. Eating breakfast can fill you up and help prevent snacking. If you're trying to lose weight, gain more energy or you have simply have run out of options, I have a few breakfast suggestions that will fuel you and help you rise and shine the rest of the day.
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1. Fruit. Start your day with fruit. There are a number of ways you can incorporate it in a healthy diet and quick meal. Apples, bananas, pears, grapes are the best grab-and-go types, but any and all fruit is highly recommended. Fruit is low in calories and contains some of the fiber necessary for a healthy diet. Click here to read more on why fruit is so important to our daily diet.
2. High-fiber toast. Not just any bread will do. Go for 100% whole wheat or 100% whole grain breads. Pop a piece or two in the toaster, spread on some almond butter or peanut butter for protein and out the door you go!
3. Hard-boiled egg. Got 5 to 7 minutes? Then hard-boiled eggs are in order. They are full of protein and a great source of vitamin B-12 and riboflavin - which are essential for energy production, cancer prevention, better hair, skin and nail and cell regeneration. Cook your eggs ahead of time and then they're ready to enjoy alone, on a breakfast sandwich or salad (yes, you can eat salad for breakfast too!)
4. Smoothie. By far, my favorite option. You can combine your favorite fruits and veggies, protein source, choice of dairy or non-dairy items water or juice. Check out my monthly newsletter for a quick and easy recipe.
5. Oatmeal, cream of wheat or grits. Have to eat at your desk? Packets of instant oatmeal and grits are easy to store in your desk and simple to make. Just add hot water and eat. Add fruit or nuts to bulk up your fiber and protein I Your instant options are high in carbohydrates and fiber and relatively low in calories. Just watch out for added sugar. Try to buy low-sugar or unsweetened varieties.
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Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Overjoyed With Oils
I am so excited today to share with you my experiences with using essential oils. I have really been head-over-heels and overjoyed by the results. The certified pure therapeutic grade or CPTG, essential oils I've been using have been life-changing. Here are a few I believe no home should be without.
LAVENDER ESSENTIAL OIL - Can you say oh, so relaxing? I know you have heard about the calming effects of lavender. And when you use pure therapeutic grade lavender, you are transported into a spa-like realm that words just can't describe. As I mentioned, it works wonders for soothing headaches and your emotions. But did you know that when it's applied topically it can calm irritated skin, lips and reactions to bee stings or bug bites? If you have trouble falling to sleep, a few drops on your pillow or to the bottom of your feet will have you hanging out with the Mr. Sandman in no time.
These three oils offer benefits beyond measure. They, in my opinion, should be in everyone's medicine cabinet, purse, brief case, gym bag or whatever you use to carry your personal belongings. They are the "essentials" when it comes to making over your medicine cabinet with essential oils.
I have an awesome way for you to get these home at a fraction of the cost too.
Go to http://www.mydoterra.com/aliciabettes and click the shopping link. Under the products list, click on "product packages." Scroll down the screen and look for the introductory kit.
It will run you only $26.67 - tax and shipping not included. You'll receive a 5 ml bottle of the 3 oils I mentioned today and an introductory CD and booklet in a stunning presentation box that includes suggested uses of the oils. You can then begin the immediate experience of the life-changing benefits that make me extremely excited. Trust me, you won't regret your purchase.
If you want to save even more or your next purchase, contact me at alicia@ritechoicenutriton.com so you can become a preferred member and receive 20% off all future purchases.
Thanks again for following me on this journey. And as always, remember this: Your health is your wealth, invest in it wisely every day!
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*None of these statements are meant to diagnose, cure or treat any disease
Monday, May 20, 2013
Oklahoma: Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
In light of recent events in my life and today in Oklahoma, I felt it was necessary to post this simple, yet profound quote of the day - which should be our mantra for life:
Remember, this is the only way to ensure you are living the healthiest and wealthiest life of your dreams!
Now, stop existing and get back to living!
Remember, this is the only way to ensure you are living the healthiest and wealthiest life of your dreams!
Now, stop existing and get back to living!
Thursday, May 9, 2013
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Fried cabbage with spicy turkey sausage, made by Alicia Bettes |
Good Afternoon my healthy and wealthy friends. As promised yesterday, via my pages http://www.facebook.com/RiteChoiceNutrition and http://www.facebook.com/abettes , I tried out this great fried cabbage and sausage recipe with a few "healthy" modifications. Check my Facebook pages for the complete recipe. But I'll tell you what I swapped. First of all, the recipe called for bacon grease. I won't even go there right now - so, what I will tell you is that I used coconut oil instead. And I also traded polish sausage - which is usually made with pork casing - for a spicy turkey sausage made with a soy casing. All I have to say is mmmm, mmmm, good! This is a quick and easy recipe. I don't think the most inexperienced cook could mess it up. I also made a pan of homemade cornbread. Just Google an easy recipe that fits your fancy or whatever box version you're used to. The combination was scrumptious! And this pan gave allowed plenty of leftovers for my husband and me. The great thing about this is the cabbage and the other veggies help fill you up with good fiber and low calories. You can change up the type of sausage (chicken, beef, pork, veggie) for a nice protein boost and the cornbread helps kick the meal up a notch - making it complete. The only thing missing is a fruit. You can save that for an after dinner snack/dessert or make a fruit smoothie. Anyway - give this recipe a try and let me know what you think. Bon Appetit !
***Be sure to keep my website handy if you or someone you know is in the market for a holistic health coach: www.ritechoicenutrition.com - I empower women to stop dieting and learn how to eat right and live the life of their dreams!
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